Because our voices and our histories matter. Me getting off on you getting off on me. People said so many nasty things about me. The first few times we had sex I was coked out of my mind. I have passed groups of 15 men, who might call out but never have made moves touch me. I felt ridiculous and ashamed to have gotten so drunk as to not immediately notice.
Sylvia. Age: 27.
Me getting off on you getting off on me.
Norah. Age: 22.
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I have felt the most happy sexually when I have been in love with a new guy. Not aggressively, but just without my OK or making sure I was comfortable, at least. Recently, I was out with my friends. The sensation makes every hair on my body stand up. My thought was, where were they all this time? At age 13, I had had oral sex with two guys and one girl all separate incidents—maybe I was bisexual? I only did it for years to keep the relationship close.